“There are some people who live in a dream world, and there are some who face reality; and then there are those who turn one into the other.”- D.H.E

Alright so I was thinking about Jerry McGuire and his famous line "I'm not letting you get rid of me". I was wondering how that kind of tactic works. Your partner says they want to break up, you state; "I don't want to". Plain and simple, 1 for 1, equal, tie breaker nothing changes. Some might argue that the person breaking up pulls more weight because they can withdrawal. But if the other person refuses to withdraw then its still equal.

Why does no hold more value than yes?

It takes two to make a relationship, why doesn't it take two to not make a relationship. Technically the theory holds itself, however emotionally is where we might run into some issues.

It seems that many of us are in these relationships, holding onto something that doesn't exist. Fabricating it in our minds and building it up as something more than it is. He or she has let u know in many ways its not happening, it never will happen and it never did happen. So why be upset about something that does not even exist?

If it takes two to tango, then why doesn't it take two not to tango?
Because it isn't the tango if your dancing alone, it never was.