Great debates:

Besides that which happens in the am between how much milk and cereal is left in your bowl, and how your going to proportionally work it out, there is the debate about second chances.

Some say that second chances don't matter because people never change, some say that we all deserve a second chance. When it comes to how you feel about someone how do we proportionally work it out? Do we give them a second chance to grow on you or do we decide that even though we've learned so little about someone; is it enough to just know?
Another question, how much does liking someone have to do with the things they've said to you, done to you etc. Id say not much because sometimes people like people that they've never been introduced to. So when it comes to Love is it not supposed to be based on instant gut feeling? Is a second chance really going to change anything that you dont already know?