“There are some people who live in a dream world, and there are some who face reality; and then there are those who turn one into the other.”- D.H.E

Alright so I was thinking about Jerry McGuire and his famous line "I'm not letting you get rid of me". I was wondering how that kind of tactic works. Your partner says they want to break up, you state; "I don't want to". Plain and simple, 1 for 1, equal, tie breaker nothing changes. Some might argue that the person breaking up pulls more weight because they can withdrawal. But if the other person refuses to withdraw then its still equal.

Why does no hold more value than yes?

It takes two to make a relationship, why doesn't it take two to not make a relationship. Technically the theory holds itself, however emotionally is where we might run into some issues.

It seems that many of us are in these relationships, holding onto something that doesn't exist. Fabricating it in our minds and building it up as something more than it is. He or she has let u know in many ways its not happening, it never will happen and it never did happen. So why be upset about something that does not even exist?

If it takes two to tango, then why doesn't it take two not to tango?
Because it isn't the tango if your dancing alone, it never was.

A nickname is the heaviest stone that the devil can throw at a man. It is a bugbear to the imagination, and, though we do not believe in it, it still haunts our apprehensions.

Did you ever notice that guys always get nicknames that stick. Especially in high school, and if they dont get a nickname theyre usually called by their last names. Girls never get nicknames like MRS..., BIG...., some alteration of their name... etc.

The people who are called by their last names isnt so bad, however those that are titles can be detrimental. Its can be easy if you are given a title and then you live up to that name. You become your nickname, or always have to be that nickname. As time goes on that can be bad because it holds you to that title and prevents you from changing into who you really are supposed to be.

To be honest my gf's have given me nicknames before just between us and I only have about one that sticks. At first I was a little envious that guys always get these cool names but I dont know why guys do it so maybe its better girls dont adopt that trend!

A few Thoughts

I've learned you cant Force music on people, you cant say listen to this song and hope they like it as much as you. I think is because music really grows on people. I suggest you leave the CD for them to pop in and eventually you will see they will become obsessed!

Second thought I love the people who workout on machines that aren't on! When is it okay to tell them its out of order or to press start!

Its easier if you ask people specific questions about a holiday rather than, how was it? Too much to talk about!

And its impossible to be a robot : )