“Remember, people will judge you by your actions, not your intentions. You may have a heart of gold -- but so does a hard-boiled egg.”

We can always questions people intentions but we never really know what they are. Sometimes people ask and pry, wanting to know things about you, - get to know you, or so they say, but are they asking because they truly care, or do they just want to play a game of measuring up?
Sometimes people ask too many questions, questions that we don't even have the answers to ourselves. This plays on our insecurities and in defense we back away, or shut that person out because they make us doubt ourselves.
But until we can really see any concrete evidence that these people are not on our side we should not push them away. Some people just don't know when to stop or how to mind their own business. Some people are also insecure themselves so are only asking because they want to see if they measure up. Point is we all have insecurities but you cant let them get to you and let people make you feel bad about something. We all have our plans in our back pockets so just tell them, 'you wait and see'.